"If it isn't pain, then it isn't love." - The Devil is a Woman(1935).
Every love story has a of touch a pain in its pages. Whether it's in misunderstandings, fights, goodbyes, disappointments and heartaches, it has always existed, even in the most beautiful of relationships.
When you have felt pain, it most often means that you do and always have cared. It means that you value the person so much for making that pain a big deal. It doesn't really make sense to not care about the pain someone has inflicted on you, right? So you do. And the pain can run really deep.
Pain can also be a sign that you've fallen in love. It is unexplainable in a way, but it is love itself that hurts. That very feeling that goes deep inside, it is what can make you feel pain. It is also the thought of you not ending up with him that causes the pain. It is perhaps the jealousy, the friendship and the mere fact that you won't ever be together is the cause of the sadness. Pain makes you realize your feelings for him/her. No wonder a lot of people say, "I love him/her so much, it hurts".
Whenever pain arises, it is often deep and penetrating. It may be difficult to mend and may take a lifetime to heal. Often have we known of love stories whose loves could not forgotten for a long period of time. It only comes to show that love is indeed valuable, it shouldn't be played around with or taken lightly. The fact of this matter is, "The only person who could erase the pain, is the same person who created it."
Oh yes, it is true.
So they say, 'To Love is make yourself vulnerable'. Indeed, indeed.
When you take the risk of loving a person, you have to be prepared to experience pain.
If you have the strength:
"Loved Once. Felt the pain.Open your heart. Love again. "
